Bedwetting

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A Guide to Bed-wetting

Toilet training a child takes a lot of patience, time, and understanding. Most children do not become fully toilet trained until they are between 2 and 4 years of age. Some will be able to stay dry during the day. Others may not be able to stay dry during the night until they are older. This brochure was developed to explain the causes of bed-wetting, help you recognize signs of a problem caused by stress or illness, and give you suggestions that might help your child wet the bed less often.

Causes of bed-wetting

Nighttime bed-wetting, called enuresis, is normal and very common among preschoolers. It affects about 40% of three year olds.All of the causes of bed-wetting are not fully understood, but the following are the main reasons a child wets the bed:

his bladder is not yet developed enough to hold urine for a full night, or
he is not yet able to recognize when his bladder is full, wake up, and use the toilet

Often, a child who has been dry at night will suddenly start bed-wetting again. When this happens it is usually due to stress in the child's life. Such stress could be due to a big change, such as a new baby in the home, moving, or a divorce. Children who are being physically or sexually abused may also develop enuresis. If your child wets the bed after having been dry at night in the past, your pediatrician should do an evaluation. The bed-wetting may be a sign that stress or a disease is causing the problem.

In trying to find the cause of your child's bed-wetting, we may ask you the following questions:

Is there a family history of bed-wetting?
How often does your child urinate, and at what times of the day?
When does your child wet the bed? Is your child very active, upset, or under unusual stress when it happens?
Does your child tend to wet the bed after drinking carbonated beverages, caffeine, citrus juices, or a lot of water?
Is there anything unusual about how your child urinates or the way his urine looks?

If we suspect a problem,we may take a urine sample from your child to check for signs of an infection or other problem. We may also order tests, such as x-ray films of the kidneys or bladder, if there are signs that wetting is due to more than just delayed development of bladder control.

If the tests point to a problem that may require surgery, we may recommend that you see a urologist who is specially trained to treat children's urinary problems that require surgery.

Most school-age children who wet their beds have primary enuresis. This means they have never developed nighttime bladder control. Instead, they have had this condition since birth and often have a family history of the problem. Children who are older when they develop nighttime bladder control often have at least one parent who had the same problem. In most cases, these children become dry at about the same age that their parent(s) did.

Signs of a problem

Some parents fear that their child's bed-wetting is due to a disease or other physical problem. Actually, only about 1% of bed-wetting cases are related to diseases or defects such as:

Bladder or kidney infections
Diabetes
Defects in the child's urinary system

With any of these cases, there will often be changes in how much and how often your child urinates during the day. Your child may also have discomfort while urinating. Tell us if you see any of the following signs at any age:

Unusual straining during urination, a very small or narrow stream of urine, or dribbling that is constant or happens just after urination
Cloudy or pink urine, or bloodstains on underpants or nightclothes
Daytime as well as nighttime wetting
Burning during urination

Tips to manage bed-wetting

Reassure your child that the symptoms of enuresis will pass as he or she gets older. Until that happens naturally, however, the following steps might help the situation.

Take steps before bedtime. Have your child use the toilet and avoid drinking large amounts of fluid just before bedtime.

Protect and change the bed. Until your child can stay dry during the night, put a rubber or plastic cover between the sheet and mattress. This protects the bed from getting wet and smelling like urine.

Let your child help. Encourage your child to change the wet sheets and covers. This teaches responsibility. At the same time it can relieve your child of any embarrassment from having family members know every time he or she wets the bed. If others in the family do not have similar chores, though, your child may see this as punishment. In that case, it is not recommended.

Other treatments:Because bed-wetting is such a common problem, many mail-order treatment programs and devices advertise that they are the cure. Use caution; many of these products make false claims and promises and may be overly expensive. Your pediatrician is the best source for advice, and you should ask for it before your child starts any treatment program.

Do medications help?

When no other form of treatment works, we may prescribe medication.The two commonly used medications are DDAVP and Tofranil. The most commonly use medication is DDAVP in either a small pill or a nose spray.We can talk with you about the different medications that are available, their possible side effects, and their success rates.

If none of the treatments work

A small number of children who wet the bed do not respond to any treatment. Fortunately, as each year passes, bed-wetting will decrease as the child's body matures. By the teen years almost all children will have out-grown the problem. Only 1 in 100 adults is troubled by persistent bed-wetting.

Until your older child outgrows bed-wetting, he or she will need a lot of emotional support from the family. Support from our office or a mental health professional can also help.

Parents need to provide support

It is important that parents give support and encouragement to children who wet the bed. They should be sensitive to the child's feelings about bed-wetting. For instance, children may not want to spend the night at a friend's house or go to summer camp. They may be embarrassed or scared that their friends will find out they wet the bed.

Make sure your child understands that bed-wetting is not his fault and that it will get better in time. Reward him for "dry" nights, but do not punish him for "wet" ones. Remember, your child does not have control over the problem and would like it to stop, too!

Do not pressure your child to develop nighttime bladder control before her body is ready to do so. As hard as your child might try, the bed wetting is beyond her control, and she may only get frustrated or depressed because she can not stop it.

Set a no teasing rule in your family. Do not let family members, especially siblings, tease a child who wets the bed. Explain to them that their brother or sister does not wet the bed on purpose. Do not make an issue of the bed-wetting every time it occurs.

If your child has enuresis, discussing it with we can help you to understand it better.We can also reassure you that your child is normal and that he or she will eventually outgrow bed-wetting.

If you have questions about bedwetting or eneuresis, you can contact us at:

Info@Laramiekids.com

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